How do I make him fall in love with me again?

Every relationship has its ups and downs. It’s normal for two people in a relationship to feel closer at some times than others. So how do you make it look more up than down? How do you handle a relationship that seems to be going south when you want it to go north? These simple tricks can help him fall in love with you all over again and become even more committed.

pamper yourself

It’s easy to get caught up in pleasing others and get carried away. To help him fall in love with you again, you need to feel important enough to be treated well and loved. Take some time for “you” and have a lazy day, treat yourself to a nice leisurely walk, facial, mani or pedi or both, haircut or a new hairstyle. Stand tall and straight and exude that self-confidence that says, “look at me.” You will be surprised how he will suddenly look at you when you stand up and have this new attitude.

You don’t have to make any major changes to exude this confidence. A new outfit, a new shade of lipstick, teeth whitening, a new hair clip—it can all lift your spirits and lift your spirits.

love yourself

Accept and love yourself as you are. If you can’t love yourself, how can you expect someone else to love you? Look in the mirror and find something good that you like about yourself. It can be your hair, your nose, your eyes, find that thing and focus on it. We all have flaws and if we focus on the positive those flaws seem to disappear. Also, defects are always noticed more by us than by others. Focus on the positive and let him see you shine.

If you’ve gotten carried away, ditch the scruffy stuff and get back to basics. A touch of makeup, a new shirt, comb your hair. It’s the little things that make a big difference.

The happier you are, the more people want to be around you. Don’t air your “dirty laundry,” don’t complain, and don’t reveal too much of your body. He will respect you for it.

Do you remember when you fell in love? Remember that good feeling you had? Take a walk down memory lane and smile and feel good about yourself and your relationship. He’ll be up and running in no time and he’ll notice that he seems happier. He may even ask you why, that’s when you take the time to share with him that you were only thinking about the day you met or that date you had your first kiss. Guide him through your memory and let him remember on his own. He loved you then and he will love you now and the memories will surely light some fire in his eyes.

It doesn’t take a miracle to make him fall in love with you again. Chances are just a few small changes will do the trick and remind her of what she loved about you in the first place.