Why do guys avoid pretty girls?

It has been said that men are visual creatures. And other people’s comments are that you’re pretty. However, it seems that guys are reluctant to get close to you! I know how it can make your heart and mind go crazy sometimes when you see other girls, who are clearly less pretty than you, happily loved by their boyfriends. To help you regain your sanity and courage to venture back into the world of dating, I have written this article on ‘Why do boys avoid pretty girls?’. Please don’t give up hope of finding everlasting love just yet. If I can do it, you can too. Finish reading this article, because it could save you a lot of heartache and despair…

The main reason why men avoid pretty girls is that men will not approach a woman unless they believe there is a 75% chance that she will not reject him.

I’m not sure how well you know this, but the feeling of being rejected by any woman, pretty or not, sucks downright. No man in his right mind enjoys being rejected. That’s why a guy will avoid approaching a pretty woman unless he gets the feeling that she will be open and receptive to her advances. By this I mean that he communicates to the world, or to a particular guy, that it is friendly and safe to approach her.

Unfortunately, the media makes it even scarier for men to work up the courage to approach pretty women. Haven’t you seen shows that portray pretty girls as mean girls? It doesn’t matter if it’s true or if it’s happened to a guy before. With some compassion, you can understand how a guy can easily imagine a pretty girl embarrassing or embarrassing him in front of a crowd. It’s even scarier if a guy has already had negative experiences approaching less pretty girls!

So how can a pretty girl give guys the courage to approach her?

The biggest piece of advice I can give to solve the problem of guys avoiding you is to cultivate a look that feels friendly to men in general. My personal secret is to smile from within. Learning to smile from within is a skill that ANY woman can acquire. But don’t be fooled into thinking that she can put a fake smile on her face. If you do that, you run the risk of appearing TOO accessible, which will attract all sorts of strange men to you. The trick is to figure out a way to genuinely share your soft, gentle feminine side with the world, as much as you can. It took me a bit of effort to transform from within. It will also cost you some effort. But I guarantee it is worth it when you find a man who loves you, appreciates you and never wants to leave you, because you are so feminine!