Seduce women with your words

They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. With women it is through his ears. With a carefully selected choice of words, he can successfully seduce any woman he desires, no matter what she looks like or what he earns.

built-in commands

An embedded command is an NLP technique used to persuade someone to feel a certain way. Reading that sentence, I’m sure you already realized how useful it could be when trying to seduce a woman.

The idea is that you slip certain commands into your dialogue while talking to the woman you are interested in. If done right, it’s so smooth and flowing that she’ll never notice it; however, she will subconsciously pick up on these embedded commands and they will have the desired effect. It is simply the power of suggestion.

For example, let’s say you’re talking to a woman about pets, you might say something like, “When I was a kid we had a pet (any animal you want) and she could be very affectionate with me.” It’s important to be covert with these commands, don’t force one if it doesn’t fit.

The tone of voice is key here. An order is given with a downward inflection, this shows conviction. It also registers on a deep level, whereas as you talk to the woman, she won’t consciously notice this slight change in inflection.

Have interesting anecdotes ready

Even if you’ve led a relatively mundane life, you probably have a couple of interesting stories tucked away somewhere. If not invent them. Anecdotes give you an excellent opportunity to swipe onboard commands. If you’re really committed to becoming a seduction master, then you might even consider writing a little script (including embedded commands) for yourself containing an interested anecdote. Keep it short and finish it at a high point.

listen and ask questions

A conversation is a two-way thing. Asking a woman questions about her life will give you more topics of conversation to follow. Follow-up questions will also show that you are listening and interested in what they have to say.

If, at any point, the woman asks you if what she did in a certain situation was the best thing to do, always tell her that she thought of the right option. This gives an ego boost as well as affirms her decision-making abilities. If she is asking your opinion on something, it is almost certain that she is considering you as a partner, affirming her decision-making abilities will make her feel that she is making the right decision.

practice

Seduction techniques require practice to perfect. There are a few ways you can practice before taking your skills into a “live environment”. One is talking to yourself in the mirror. Practice your speech and mannerisms until they look completely natural, this will also increase your confidence levels. Another similar method is to speak into a dictaphone and then listen to it. Repeat this over and over, correcting mistakes and missteps as you go.

However, real practice can be found in bars, libraries, stores, and anywhere else you see a woman you’re attracted to. For some men, things instantly fall into place once they get the hang of the game. For others, it may take a few tests to get it right.

Whatever happens, stand firm and develop your plan. You will find that certain stories and commands have higher success rates than others. Keep these and go back to work with the others until your technique is so good that you can seduce any woman.