How to use a room to build social proof like a pickup artist

Have you ever met one of those guys who walks into a room and it’s like a 600 pound gorilla walks in? The energy in the room rises, all eyes are on this guy, everyone is waiting to see what he does next. His social value is through the roof and for a moment he is a rock star. Women want him and men want to be him.

As a pickup artist, you want to be able to do this in any room. Because? Because it increases your social value, which makes you much more capable of opening conversations with women and generating attraction. So, let’s discuss some ways you can become the giant that the whole room revolves around.

1. Smile and walk with confidence. You are someone special, but you take the time to meet and talk to all the ordinary people along the way. Make sure the vibe you give off is fun and positive, no one wants to meet a grumpy guy. His confidence must be almost intimidating and must be reflected in the way he walks. Make sure you have an open and approachable look on your face. It seems like you will welcome people, not like you want to beat them up.

2. Interact. When you’re in a club, you build some kind of social value by interacting with everyone, and it’s being watched by everyone in the room. Remember that even if you don’t think anyone is looking at you, someone is always looking, someone is always seeing you. So make sure that what they see is positive. Make good eye contact with everyone, and if a girl doesn’t break eye contact right away, she’s approachable.

3. Learn to guide people with your words. You should be able to carry a conversation beyond the point of walking around and saying “Hello” to a group. If you can’t keep it going, you can’t keep the energy up.

4. Never turn off or have a negative vibe. Even if you run out of a set, just move on to the next one. remember that emotions are contagious like yawning. If you’re all smiles and fun, people will want you around you. But if you’re sad or grumpy they’ll want you to leave.