How To Talk Dirty To A Guy – How To Blow His Mind Tonight

Learning how to talk dirty to a guy is a powerful tool to make any guy’s head spin and weak in the knees. For those women who have mastered the art of dirty talk, I don’t need to tell you about the true power of words and how they can make you melt away in seconds.

The first thing to know is that you should not feel self-conscious or nervous when starting out. Trust me, your man will love it no matter how messed up you are to start with. The key, whether he’s a beginner or someone who’s thrown a couple of sizzling lines, is that he needs to talk dirty with absolute confidence.

Make no mistake, confidence really is a deadly weapon and it can make your guy ask for more.

There are a couple of things to keep in mind when getting started. First of all, you shouldn’t let dirty talk be confined to the bedroom or face-to-face contact. One of the easiest ways for beginners to get started is to send naughty text messages.

The key to delivering awesome dirty talk is understanding when to be assertive and when to be more submissive. These two methods will allow you to play the naughty girl who won’t take no for an answer, or a much more submissive role that will leave him feeling empowered and in control.

Stroking your guy’s ego is a sure way to make him feel like a stud.

Getting your mind racing and your imagination soaring is what you should aim for.

You can send him naughty text messages while he is at work or with his friends telling him all the things you want to do to him or what you want him to do with you. Imagination is the key to making him weak in the knees and drool like a puppy.

Whether you choose the submissive approach or the much more assertive approach, you need to be confident in yourself and what you are saying. Nothing will turn him off more than hearing you say things for the sake of saying them. If you are NOT comfortable with what you want to say, then don’t say it.

You don’t need to go from 0 to 100 in two seconds like you may have seen in adult movies. Being subtle and understated can turn him on below the equator and get his mind racing. A good example of this is whispering something in his ear when you’re out in public or having dinner. You can also imitate something across the room to get his heart racing.

If you want to text and email with nothing, you should be as descriptive as possible to let your imagination run wild. The fact is that both men and women can be aroused by both mental and physical attraction between the sheets.

If you are face to face then you can either whisper something in their ear or demand it (assertive approach) and look them straight in the eye and allow them to do ALL of the talking. Giving him “that look” while trash-talking will make his heart race!

If you’re in the bedroom, just do it, don’t get too hung up on what you’re going to say, doing so can look and sound very unnatural and really mess up the “rhythm”.

Understanding what your guy likes to have done to him or loves to do to you is really the key. If he’s not sure, just take it easy and tone it down and up when he feels like he’s pushing his buttons. It’s important to know how to change gears in different situations and to know when to tone it up and go and mix it up.

This will come in time, there is no need to stress or overthink it. Play by ear! The way your guy responds will speak volumes and let you know if you’re hitting the mark.

Don’t stress about it! Chances are nothing you say will turn your guy off! Guys love women who know how to talk dirty even if they aren’t an expert! It doesn’t take long to get into your groove and have your man begging you to talk dirtier in and out of the bedroom!