How to seduce a woman like a player

There is a small percentage of men who get the most success with women. We all know someone who is a gamer, you know, those guys who seem to automatically know how to seduce a woman, and do it like magic.

In my quest to learn what these players do, I discovered that there are some surprising commonalities that they share. And if you, too, adopt these attitudes and practices, you too will go from zero to hero when it comes to girls.

Before I go any further, however, I must warn you that what you are about to read, despite being proven to work, is highly controversial. So if you’re offended by truly crude and politically incorrect blunt words, hit the “Back” button now.

The first thing that virtually all gamers have in common is this core belief: “Women want sex as much as I do.” Men who are not gamers believe the opposite, that women don’t like sex and they have to be fooled somehow. This negative belief becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy that sets them up for failure.

The second belief that virtually all successful seducers share is this: “It’s up to me to take the lead when it comes to sex.” Here too there is a big mistake that many of us make. Instead of prompting the interaction, we feel fear and instead allow the woman to initiate the rejection. The result? Lots of sexual frustration.

You see, unfortunately, women have a difficult challenge growing up in our repressed society. If a woman acts on her sexual urges (such as going out and picking up random men), she risks being labeled a “slut” and shunned by most people.

So instead, what a woman should do is let the man take the lead when it comes to seduction. She is then able to reason to herself that “this guy blew my mind” and “I couldn’t help it”. That allows him to stop thinking and get carried away by her feelings.

Now that you have these two pieces of knowledge (ie women love sex as much as you do and want you to take the lead when it comes to sex), there are two actions you need to take.

The first action is to let everything you do and say be something that balances the logical side of the woman’s mind with the emotional side. So instead of saying, “Let’s go over to your place to be alone together,” you should say, “Unfortunately, I don’t have much time, but I’d love to stop by to see those photos from your trip to Florida.”

The first statement sets off alarm bells with her yelling, “I’m moving too fast on this guy!” Her second puts her mind at ease because it’s a totally innocent reason for the two of you to be alone.

(By the way, even if you have a lot of time, it’s good to pretend you don’t. This is a technique called “false time constraint” that puts her at ease.)

Again, you want to keep her emotions ENGAGED and her logical mind CALM. Emotions are involved because she feels great. Her logical mind calms down because she has an innocent explanation to take you home with her.

The second action taken by seductive teachers is the “two steps forward, one step back” concept. Women enjoy being teased and don’t just want a straight line progression from kissing to boot smacking.

So, for example, when you unhook the woman’s bra, release it and go back to a much earlier phase of the make-out session. (Run your fingers through her hair and kiss her, etc.) Then, much later, after going through all the phases, go back to where you were when you unhooked her bra, and then do one more step to intensify it (like slipping from the bra straps). Then he goes back to a much earlier phase, like sniffing her neck.

It’s really a simple formula. Two steps forward, one step back.

In conclusion, seducing a woman comes down to four things:

1. The firm belief that he loves sex as much as you do.

2. Willingness to take the initiative and be responsible for the seduction, which frees her from having to feel like a whore.

3. Keep your logical mind calm and your emotions engaged.

4. Joke with her and go slow.