How to make a girl like you! 5 steps to attraction

Ok, let’s be real, women are smart, I mean very smart… Contrary to our beliefs, simple pick-up lines from men or even imitations of money, success or power don’t always work, in fact, they rarely do. . Even in that kind of success, you have to ask yourself if the kind of woman you really want to be involved with if those lower levels of communication and tactics get you anywhere. Sure, if it worked for you, it worked for many others and I can’t speak for everyone, but I like to pick the ones that are a bit of a descendant. Here I promise to give you an edge over just “getting the girl”; things that women cannot ignore and generally love to have. Even if they don’t know or realize what they are missing, they will soon fall head over heels for you. This my friend is what we call becoming the true MASTER OF SEDUCTION!

First of all folks, a true gamer is direct and honest, not ashamed or embarrassed about their wants, likes or dislikes. Women can sense your level of honesty from a mile away; don’t try to run away from this. Now, some of you will read this as simply asking for sex in advance… well… that might work sometimes… But I’ll give you something a little better than that. Wait and take notes with me. This is the sure way how to make a girl like you.

Seduction Rule #1: Attraction is important, but even ugly men can gain a lot of ground if you dress well, SMELL GOOD, have a light haircut, and groom yourself well. Don’t try to go out and look like a Jersey Shore rapper, singer or TV star…just be yourself. Keep it simple, clean and elegant. Guys throw on a pair of jeans that fit them well, a button-down shirt for the weather, a pair of boat shoes, maybe a vest or blazer. Give them something interesting, but comfortable at the same time that they don’t overexert themselves. That’s also what we call SWAG, women think that’s sexy. Please don’t forget to smell good, let the lady behind the counter tell you what’s good if she needs help in the mall.

Seduction rule #2: You have to appear harmless! I hope you’re really harmless… If you’re kind of sick, this blog was never meant for you, I promise. For normal guys, don’t attack her, make demands, or set crazy expectations. Be understanding of her needs and be patient, never rush a woman. Do things that put you under her, like rubbing her feet, carrying her leftovers after dinner, etc. The mindset is that you want her to feel like you are the last person in the world to worry about and yes, this can be done on the first date!

Seduction rule #3: Have something to talk about. Find what their likes are and talk about them. If you’re into athletics, speak to whatever knowledge you may have on the subject. Then sit back and watch her open her mouth, laugh at things you know nothing about. Let him take you into his world, trust me when you get there you will love it. Always make eye contact and smile like you can’t wait to find out what happens next in your story. Make sure they are sincere guys, women love to talk about their lives and for people to listen. Show him that you also have good ideas and opinions, don’t be afraid to share some personal things about yourself too. Don’t get too personal, but make it special for her.

Seduction Rule #4: CHALLENGE NEVER DIED! 95 percent of guys are jerks, perverts, naughty, jerks, etc., etc. So if you’re reading this, you have a huge advantage of the majority! Do little things that she’s probably not used to. Open the door for her, pull out her chair, especially car doors (women love it). Try to hold her arm or hand once or twice, if she does it the 2nd or 3rd time she likes it, if not, don’t keep holding her. Maybe she has a guy somewhere local and doesn’t want to complicate things… (Sad, kind of funny, but true… some of these women are the biggest pimps… let’s not be naive about it)

Seduction rule #5: Guys, if you haven’t heard anything else, listen to this. The most important part of getting a girl to like you. PUT HER PLEASURE FIRST and MAKE HER FEEL BEAUTIFUL! Simple as that, do this by yourself and you will almost certainly get into those sheets. Tell her that she is beautiful often, let her know that she is the baddest woman in the room/club, etc. Find things about her to compliment her, like her smile, her hands, etc. Never say chest or butt, come on now… that’s nonsense. She has to be convinced it’s the best thing to come since my mom’s apple pie. When you finally get her where we all want her, make sure he gets hers from her first. If you trust her, she’s clean, she smells good… I suggest all the guys go downtown. If you don’t know how to do it right…there are resources for that too…Trust me when I say you’ll thank yourself soon.

Now I know there are a lot of details and questions some of you may have, especially on that first date about building rapport and chemistry. Okay, you got it from me, I’ll go over that in the next section as well.