Are Chinese women the new thing? "trophy handcuffs"?

It is a fact. Everywhere you look, more and more wealthy foreign men are marrying Chinese women, especially in places with a dense Chinese population, such as the US. In cities like Los Angeles and New York, it is common to see Chinese women shopping at high street stores. expensive brands with their mestizo children. So what made these guys ignore all the skinny busty blondes and go after the Chinese girls?

There are probably multiple answers to this question, but one that seems to come up again and again is the fact that Chinese women tend to care more about their families. In these uncertain days, when every year seems to bring with it a new financial crisis, more and more Western women are spending time on their careers, while putting their families on the back burner. Western men, on the other hand, have been watching helplessly as their wives slowly assume their role as the sole financial breadwinners in the household. The truth remains: men enjoy having a wife to take care of them, take care of the kids, and keep things going around the house. Knowing that they have a wife who depends on them gives them a sense of dominance, which makes them feel a bit more like men.

The last decade has brought with it the rise of women to power. Never before have so many women attended universities and held important government and corporate positions. Western women love to brag about the fact that they are financially independent, because for them it is almost like coming out of years of seclusion and finally being able to see the sunlight. It’s like showing off the prize for winning a long and strenuous battle. What women really didn’t count on all these years is that they can change the way society thinks, but they can’t change the laws of nature.

It is a fact that women love to feel safe. When looking for a partner, most women will even put financial security ahead of many other aspects and this is something they do even unconsciously. Even those women who have a thriving career and are completely financially secure, will not allow themselves to marry or even fall in love with a man who earns less than them or has a lower education. Not to mention the old saying that women love men with expensive cars and pockets full of money. It is not about the structure in the form of steel in the form of an expensive because they love so much. This is not the rectangular greenish paper with the dollar sign printed on it. For women, it’s about the sense of security and confidence that these objects can give them.

In this scenario, where the figure of the male provider is coming to an end, Chinese women have come to fill a void. Most adult Chinese women today were raised by very traditional parents, who taught them the importance of being a good wife and taking care of her husband. Being a good wife is an important part of Chinese culture and most Chinese women are willing to make great sacrifices for their families and for their marriage. The tradition will strongly influence even Chinese women who are highly educated and quite capable of leading financially secure lives on their own. For wealthy Western men, who already have everything except a doting wife, they are the perfect match.

Another reason more and more wealthy men are showing off their Chinese wives is the simple fact that Asian women possess a “quiet” beauty that doesn’t require them to spend hours at the gym or have thousands of facials. They also seem to age much less than white women, giving an older man the feeling of being with a much younger girl without having to deal with all of the age difference issues. In short, Chinese women are becoming popular because they are easier to please and are not ashamed of being (or feeling) dependent on their husbands or boyfriends.