An adventure will ruin your life

Those who have had an affair will tell you that they didn’t actually plan it in the first place. For whatever reason, be it dissatisfaction with their marriage, boredom, restlessness, or any number of other things, they allowed themselves to get close to someone else and ended up on an affair. If they were determined to keep the relationship a secret, that only increased the excitement and made the sex even more exciting. While that process was unfolding, they were experiencing an internal battle. They worried that their spouse would find out, and they experienced overwhelming scenarios in their thoughts on how to act normal and protect the secret. If there were children in the home, what worried them most was what would bring them up on the matter.

An affair between married people brings two entire families into the relationship. At the moment of passion, the two involved do not think about how the people closest to them are going to respond. All they are thinking about is the moment and it feels good. What they are telling themselves is that the passion they feel does it well.

The truth is that there is no issue that deserves the tragedy that it left in its wake. Hearts are shattered by broken vows and shattered trust. Wives are usually left with a terrible feeling of guilt after their husbands have cheated on them as if it were their fault. An unusually cruel husband will in fact let her feel that it was her fault and her actions are the natural result of her being a poor wife and lover. That moment is when the betrayed spouse needs to stand up and realize that the fault lies only with the one who was unfaithful. As harsh as it may be, the wife must free herself from the shackles around her and declare to her husband that the matter is his doing.

Momentary happiness is fleeting at best. True happiness in a relationship comes from taking the time over the years to build trust and fidelity that is protected as a hidden treasure of immeasurable value would protect. An affair is the destruction of everything that is valuable and honorable in a relationship.

For the couple who have had an affair and have chosen to stay together, their work will be hard and constant. There will always be the question of trust. Each look will receive an answer question. Each action will be tested to see if there are other motives involved. An adventure is not worth the price, no matter how exciting the moments may be. The truth is that if the love relationship continues, the actions that left broken lives in the past will only be repeated in the future. It is always better to find your true happiness and satisfaction at home.