Understanding the Clitoris: A Travel Guide to 8,000 Beautiful Places

Guys, it’s time to have a heart to heart. We need to talk about his understanding of his lady’s “little man in the boat.”

That’s right, the clitoris. sad to say most men don’t really understand this little nugget of carnal pleasure that nature has graced women with. The clitoris is the ONLY organ in the human body that has absolutely no purpose detectable by medical science other than to provide the most exquisite natural physical pleasure possible to a woman.

Consider that the clitoris, this little nub that is the gateway to a woman’s orgasms, has more than eight thousand nerve endings. Yes, 8,000! That’s twice as much as on the head of your penis. Now consider also that those eight thousand nerve endings are packed as closely together as possible in an area smaller than a pencil eraser, even though the size of the clitoris varies greatly. Still, the clitoris is tiny, and so incredibly sensitive, and needs to be approached gently and with much more patience than your throbbing, eager penis, which is always willing to take whatever it can get.

In other words, guys? It’s not a cheeseburger, and you have to go slow!

One of the first mistakes even well-intentioned men make during foreplay in an effort to get their lady’s juices flowing is to immediately tongue-dive like a hungry seagull, making savage thrusts into our most sensitive core of existence. .

Well, we know you mean well, but… BAD! That’s too early in the game, and direct, forceful clitoral stimulation should be saved for later, if at all, and always worked up gradually.

Instead, focus on snuggling and caressing, and soft, gentle, passionate talk. Although a little off topic, she starts with a massage or back massage, a foot massage, gently admire and appreciate her breasts. AND KISS HER! Let her know that you love her.

At some point in lovemaking, you’ll naturally gravitate toward the delights of oral pleasure, and as much as you love getting your dick sucked, try to be fair about who goes first in this area. You guys have it easier, you know, and your orgasm is pretty much a guarantee, whereas many, if not most women need things going in a more proper way to come. However, some say that nature more than made up for it by bestowing on women the incredible gift of the ability to have multiple orgasms.

Now back to the center of your universe. Instead of making a bee line and ferociously attacking the clitoris, she starts first by admiring the entire surrounding area. Gently knead the area above with your fingertips. Massage along the sides of your vagina. Start giving some light kisses to these areas, then gently plant kisses around the entire area, perhaps blowing lightly here and there as well.

At this point, do NOT put half of your hand inside of it, okay? Rather, be aware of her body and how she likes it. If you hear a soft sigh or moan when you do something in particular? Do it again. If her hips move him towards you greedily? You’re making a good impression.

When you know that she wants more, you can begin to address this sweet spot of pleasure. At first, kiss him gently, gently blow on him. Gently push it back and forth, but without touching it directly. Then let your tongue gently, and we mean GENTLY, move over it a few times. Wet a finger or two with her saliva and try stroking it, but not directly at first. Massage the hood at first. Make him want more.

If she is responding favorably, and her body movements should tell you yes or no, slowly build up the action. When she tells you verbally that something in particular feels good? She keeps doing it. Sometimes her cues will be unintentional, and those cues are just as good. Repetition rules when this happens, but you’ll have to learn how far and how long to go before it gets bored or numb.

Every once in a while, take a break and kiss it off, and switch your attention briefly to another area of ​​her body, anywhere, just do something nice to her breasts or thighs, or slide back briefly and kiss her, ask. her if she likes it.

So? Go back and do some more. At this stage, it is appropriate to insert a finger or two inside the vagina, in addition to licking her lips. If you know how to find your G-spot (and if you don’t, we’ll get to that another time). Vary the way you use your tongue on her clitoris. Push it gently, shake it slowly or even quickly, back and forth, or up and down, lick it far and wide with the flat of your tongue. And when you like something? Do it over and over again. And remember it for the future.

At some point, if things go well, her clitoris may seem to disappear, hiding under the hood. This is a GOOD thing and means that he is about to cum. Speed ​​things up here and keep doing what you’re doing and get ready to enjoy your fall into the land of “la petit mort”, what the French call the “little death”.

A woman’s orgasm is perhaps one of the most beautiful things in the world to witness, and consider that you are right there in the middle of it, having even contributed to it.

Every woman cums differently, but in general, her orgasm is a series of involuntary spasms, three to fifteen convulsions of the anus, pelvic muscles, uterus, and vagina, a glorious ride of pleasurable waves.

And women can have multiples too. But don’t be jealous. Learn to please her and her natural gratitude will flow from her in your mutual desire to please you more than ever. A man who learns to do this and proves that he truly loves too, will never be alone forever.