Lesbian dating: how to tell her you like her and still be friends

She is your good friend. You like her and you want to let her know how you feel. But you are afraid of losing a good friend. How do you proceed?

If she doesn’t know you’re a lesbian yet, you should talk to her first. It’s never easy to tell someone you like them. This puts you in a vulnerable position of not knowing if she will reject you or even end your friendship. The important thing is that you remain friends even if she doesn’t feel the same way you do.

Be confident and strong when you tell him how you feel. Once you’ve revealed your feelings to him, try to keep your nerves and avoid revealing too much. She listen to her and what she says in response. Don’t be alarmed if she says “that’s sweet, but I don’t feel the same.” On the contrary, this is a good response to receive, as it shows you that she has not rejected your friendship. She just doesn’t want a romantic relationship with you.

Many people are rejected in various ways every day, so you are not alone. Don’t feel devastated, but stay confident. Just like everything else in life, you win something, you lose something. With this right attitude, you will be able to handle more episodes of rejection in the future. Chances are, at one time or another, you too have had to reject friends who expressed interest in you, but only valued them as friends. So it’s never the end of the world if you get rejected. And, again, she might very well admit that she feels the same way, so don’t necessarily expect the worst.