Do you lose your cool often? What makes you like this? Try to make a list and we will figure them out together.

Does your list look like the following?

  1. A neighbor relayed a cheap comment.

  2. A co-worker made a pointed comment behind your back.

  3. Your husband argued with you and insulted you.

  4. The landlady was reluctant to help you pay your rent a little late.

  5. A bully chased his son around the school grounds and was injured.

How to reverse the five previous cases? It’s possible? Definitely.

  1. Ignore your neighbor and focus on talking to your child and chatting happily and happily. Keep your self-esteem high. Under no conditions should you lose it. Look powerful and yet ignore the crazy woman.

  2. Ignore the irritating woman behind you at work, but stay informed about everything she does. Build a force with other adorable colleagues and stick together. The woman who itches will gradually become paralyzed.

  3. What does your husband want? Are you denying him something? Why did you argue and insult? What could be the reason? Ask yourself and see from their point of view. Is she dating someone else or does she need more from you? Are you overwhelmed by household chores? Try to find out, seek help, and act accordingly.

  4. Today there are many programs online to make money. Seek the help of someone to show you how to work these and earn a steady income so you never have to pay your rent late. Your landlady will be impressed and it will no longer cause problems.

  5. Train your child to be powerful, strong, and courageous. You don’t have to lose to bullies while keeping your power and self-control intact. Teach him to subdue bullies so they will walk away in fear. There is always a way. You can buy a book on how to handle bullying and give your child some effective advice. That should work.

There is a solution for every problem. Losing power and collapsing is not the option now. You need to be emotionally mature. Then you can think and discover everything rationally, logically and sensibly. You need to be solution oriented. The more you try positive and workable solutions, the less you have to lose your cool and show your emotions publicly. You rise above your challenges and there won’t be a second it takes to be emotionally immature. Understood?

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